THE EX LESBIAN THE SANTA CLAUS AND OTHERS TRUE STORIES

Today it happened something really weird that I thought it was valid to write and show here about it as a demonstration how ignorance, homophobia and hate most of the times comes from our own people and how important is for parents of gay teens be more understanding of their straggling for love and acceptance, because the result is a suicidal young person who never gonna live to see that life actually get better and some like this girl I will talk about it further down that probably had her sexuality so castrated from her parents and community that became this sexually mess up person with extreme religious views and someone set to be forever unhappy making the life of people around her so miserable as herself.

So, was me today killing time in front of the computer watching about this campaign in American entitled IT GETS BETTER, where famous gay celebrities, gay employees from facebook, pixar, google and even the America president himself talk straight to the very young gay kids in America about not tolerating bullying for being gay and how those hard times of getting out of the closet it will get better as they get older. All these because was a increase rate of suicidal among gay teen in America.

I current live in England where we not only have the right to married (ok, civil partnership but rights first equal titles later) but being gay is not consider a chock for a quite long time! For someone from Brazil not to get a reaction when I say im gay it is actually a chock, I grew up watching on the news about gays that got killed or were bashed, for someone from my generation I was quite brave getting out of the closet when I was 18, but I can tell that the only reason I became a adjust and valuable part of this society is because I had the love and support of my family from the very beginning, telling me that I was all right letting me to fully develop mentally and emotionally.

I admit, I left a message in the Obama speech that wasn´t quite polite, it was motivated from this person with the suggestive nickname “savethegays” that thinks being gay is like a t-shirt you can try on and then change as you which, and that how all started :

Savethegays2 They will go to hell because of the life they are living, if they want help they should go to a church who can help them get there life right!

Myself Who cares what the bible says anyway, is just a book of fairy tales to mislead people about what this life is all about that is live this life, i dont care about paradise and if i gonna have another life after this one, nobody really knows what happen after we are dead and im not willing to bet my happiness in this life in exchange a some "x-men" life in a world that i not even know exist ! I dont need religion to be a good person or to care about other people !

Savethegays2 Just because you dont want to believe in God does not mean you should prevent everyone else from believing in God. I feel very sad for you. Loving God and following his word makes me happy.

Myself Sorry if i was too rush, if i start to think i can prevent people to do what they want to do then it would not be very different from the church people that thinks they can prevent me to live my life the way i want ,i would never prevent anyone to believe in whatever they want to believe, if your faith makes you happy im happy for you, but for the moment you think you can take away my happiness because of your believes that is the moment when your religion start to get ugly !

Savethegays2 They choose to be gay so they choosed to be bullied. gay teens are not the only ones who are bullied. They tell nerds and geeks to get over it so ima tell faggot teens to get over it also. President Obama is the best President we ever had and i can see that someone is apart of the KKK group.

Myself Choose to be gay ? i promise myself not to be rude with you because you were sounding like delusional but peaceful person in your last message for me,but come on ? choose ? someone really wakes up one day and decide to suck a big cock instead of fuck his wife,do you really think is that simple ? nobody should be bullied doesn´t matter the reason,i dont like people like u that think can interfere in my life,that is reason enough for me to beat ,bully you? that is what u god teaches?

Savethegays2 You can live your liife in sin but gay people want to change the definition of marriage which is wrong and two men together is unnatural. not right in any way possible. as a citzen i dont have to accept your messed up lifestyle and i have a right to vote against it. yes gay people choose to be gay instead of getting help. like i said before. everyone is bullied. gays are no different from nerds and fat people who get bullied, so they should just get the fuck over it.

Myself For me feels very natural thank you very much is just funny that how interest in my sexual life you are, maybe because you dont have a good one yourself ,im not really interest in you sexual life as people like you are on mine,and if you are against gay marriage just dont get married to one ,is that simple! And guess what ? your battle is a losing game,is no way to get backwards anymore mate,so get over it yourself !You hate fat people,nerds,gays and then come to talk about sin ? lol

Savethegays2 first i do not hate anyone, the only people i hate is the LGBT community.

Myself i was just looking down on this page ,you are a lesbian that stop to have relationships with other women ( by the way, that doesn´t make you straight ) and now having a relationship with a black male ? if i got right you are totally nuts and hypocrite in the same time, first you denying who you are (that is totally your right) but worse, you trying to input your unhappiness to your own kind ? and use the bible against gays but was used to segregate black people from the society? Lol

Myself Is funny but if you gonna follow the bible in that so disturbed way ,you should go all the way ,not just jump the parts that will put you in jeopardy! You know that if you were in the 60´s your bible people would be doing with you exactly you like doing with gay ,fat nerd people today ? for "god" sake go and look for help ,you are totally mentally unstable and obviously very unhappy person ! Dump your BF and go eat pussy and make your life happy in this life !

Savethegays2 that is really disgusting. i will never be with a women. Its a sin and i actually want to go to heaven. I love men not women. and men are suppose to be with women and women are suppose to be with men. I will follow Gods words.

first of i am black female that is dating a white male and i did like females when i was 15 but you know what i did, I GOT HELP. my family and church family helped me get over the illness that is homosexuality and i am a very happy straight women. i am proff that if gays get help for their illness they will live a happy life and will go to heaven instead of hell. being gay or lesbian is an abomination and goes against Gods laws.

Myself Oh sorry i lost this part, so then u are the black one,so i think you are twice a back stabler ,because if you couldn´t relate to the homophobic topic because as you said you were once gay,but they brainwash you and now you are straight, at least you should relate with the strangle of people there are different but have the right to be equal, im a white male what if i decide to bash u because you are black ?oh no ,you are racist !! and homophobia is what? u are worse than i thought !

You have the right to follow whatever religion you want, deny yourself as much you want and believe in whatever you want and actually you got the right to hate as much gay people you want, but if you want all those rights,im sorry but if you really want that your choices, preferences (named as you which) be respected you should start to respect other people choices, believes and preferences too ! Are many other religions in this world with different believes then yours and they should be respect too, im not saying you should like it, but just respect the fact that nobody is like you or me ,everybody is unique with their own ambitions, desires and unique way of thinking! Respect to be respected.

WHILE I WAS WRITING SHE GOT ALSO MANY FURIOUS COMMENTS FROM THE OTHER USERS AND VANISH FROM THIS POINT.

Not sure if i will do another post until Christimas, so in case im not i would like to wish for all you guys a beautiful christmas doesn´t matter your religion, sexuality or gender!

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

Eleanor Roosevelt

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FIVE YEARS LATER

Hello guys, here is me again, after more than two months without posting, sorry for my absence but I had a good excuse after 5 years I was in my birth country Brazil and it was awesome. When you live so far from home is easy for you to forget the basic you, yourself from the time you weren’t so complex, when you had all the time in this world and life was so much simple but you didn’t know it.

My trip to the Memory Lane was a good time for me to heal old wounds; to check out my own mortality, realize how much I changed and how some things will never change. Stay away from home for so long can really makes you understand what are the real priorities in your life and where your heart really rely on!

After 5 years my grandmother that was a very healthy middle age woman became a old lady with difficulties to walk, breath and hear, in five years my niece that was a charming little girl became this funny, energetic dirty mouth pre-teenager that speak to me like my equal, in five years i got a father that finally understood his mistakes of 30 years and made his amends, in five years I was out of place in my favorite disco club, in five years I became a person on my own rights.

Time runs faster like never, is kind of funny why times pass by so slowly when you are teen and more close you get of your 30´s faster it goes and after 30 the train goes even faster and sometimes you don’t have time to look back carefully and analyse your journey and get a good picture about what you became.

In my memory and in my family memory i was still the extremely young, shy but energetic young boy that I always was, and even in the back of my mind that is the way I was still picturing myself, backing to my land, to my roots was also backing to my past, the last time I was more than a week in Sao Paulo it was 10 years ago, this time I was there for almost 2 months, time enough for me go through old pictures, to see my then irresponsible old sister mature into a carrying hard working mom, to realise im not so energetic anymore but in the same time not shy neither, time made me tougher, rude sometimes but haven’t change my love for life and faith in people good will, just being the person I am today gave some people a good lesson about how wrong is judging a book by the cover and who once predicted a dark future for myself today live their own produced darkness, time also haven’t change things that I hoped it would but in the same time show me that I lost something I shouldn’t that is my patience and that is necessary to deal with the people you love most.

Be so far away made me realise I became this “no land being” I no longer belong there but im also don’t belong here, I became this tourist on the move, someone that doesn’t speak any language right but who also can communicate in any language, my brain became this vast place full of words and experiences that nobody in my birth country could never imagine, in order to achieve those great memories of learning, trips and culture knowledge I paid a great price but im proud of what I did and now I think I finally ready to this second part of my life where the destiny is not maturity only, is infinite and beyond ! ( yeah yeah im maturing but I still like animations and Toy Story is my favorite one dah ) lol