GRINDR KILLED THE ROMANCE ?

Hey long time don't seen :) so more than year went by i opened my horizons and i need to confess i had quite a ride, i did the A to Z of the sexual exploration, something that in the pass i was never able to, maybe for being in relationships or my own hang ups with my own sexuality. 

Do you know that expression : " if you can't win, become one of them" ? unfortunately in my case i think i surrender to the dark side, and today i see myself doing things that 10 years ago i would probably be judging about it.

After the advent of Grindr, Scruff and cia it become far too easy to get a hook up, what is great if that is your purpose, i definitely took advantage of the technology, but once i got used it to this Feast of of the Naughtiness, i realise that the option to it is actually a dying reality, Grindr killed the very little romance that still could happen in our community. 

 Yeah the fun still on more than ever, weirdly today even if you are not into kinky or any more wild sexual practice, there is a sense of danger in the air, because now is all about bareback, people on prep or positive guys with low viral loads and people that are totally detached of the importance of their own health, making me the slightly kinky guy fell old fashion, after all im from the time that you used to go clubbing and everybody you know on the scene started to drop dead almost like in front of you.

After thousands shags i was pretty secure that now i learned to separate love from sex and that i was mastering the skills necessary for the perfect hook up, after all im no longer capable to fall for anyone ( after 6 years not really falling for anyone you start to think you are imune to love ) then i met someone that made me feel something ( and vice-versa until that point ) what made me think : Really ? is possible find a man into the same kinkins as me, with the same sexual intensity but that also like to cuddle, to talk and kiss the way i like ? yeah is possible, but unfortunately Grindr put you together and the same will separate you, and we arrive in that generation where in one month you go through  the all the stages of a old 7 years relationship from the past.

We are so use it to the new, to explore new bodies and shapes, that even if we are interested in someone, more than 3 encounters and you already looking for something different, we become lazy, why i will cook rice if i can buy one for microwave that will be ready in one minute ? when we finally got the right to marry who we love, we stop loving, im not saying that people are not having relationships, but now people do it for loneliness, status or ego, we don't see the passion anymore, after all now is all open, why i would try to be creative or put a effort with my partner if i have all those options to the reach of my finger, and then you see those couples that each one fuck outside and the only moment they see each other naked is when they are doing a threesome or fourth-some, honestly ? thank you, but no thank you !

Im not having much luck in my work experience, and my sexual life can go from great to varieties as much my body desires, is all good but also all empty, we suppress the need to have someone we could get together to the point we are not feeling much at all until someone comes along and prove that you still have feelings, unfortunately they don't last longer than a commercial preview from Youtube.

There still a lot for me to grasp on this new technological kinky world of today, but im getting there, unfortunately no without some scars on the way.