Few days ago there is this Freak show
surround what the journalist Samantha Brick wrote about herself in a
article,she said she was a lesbian ? That she enjoys be tired up ?
Nooo, she just said that she is beautiful, so what is so shocking about
it ? First of all it is the fact that she can say that out loud, and
second is the fact that she is not actually beautiful, ohh a bit rash
dont you think ? She also afirmed that other women are jelous of
beautiful women, and strangenly enough was that statement that burst
the tempers of the women nation.
Now,come on ? Even that beauty it is
in the eye of the beer holder (lol) say you are beautiful is as much as a powerful and open for questioning statement than women dont like
pretty women (dah) is one of those things that everybody knows but
dont metion it, it is the elephant in the room.
I was raised surround by women in my my
family and friends, and yeah women get insecure surround by beautiful
women, in the same way that men get insecure when they see their
partner looking to some six abs in magazines or at the gym, even the
most beautiful person would have their insecurities moments and
desire a more design abs or their mother's blue eyes, we are never
satisfied with ourselves, what until surtain point is a very healphy thing, be better,faster,smarter is what motivate humanity to go
forward,always searching for a better way to be yourselves.
Like the journalist said in her
interview,she always notice how men approuch her in a different way ( Like the commandant of a flight send her Champagne and she said that not even surprise her because always happen ) and how jelousy even terminated some of her friendships,and the fact
is that actually could be true, in my way of see things are two
different kind of people you want to be sexually or romantically
envolved, the pretty ones ( in my opinion are normally the ones that
you just sleep with ) and the attractive ones ( and that means they
can be pretty or not ) and normally are the ones that you want to
continue to see after the first night of sex.
Her mistake for what conserns me is
that she made the mistake of confuse the word “attractive” for
“beautiful” because that word implict a perfection that just few
of us have,and rarely you will see the ones that have it say that out
loud, they don't need as there is a legion of people to say that for
them.
Not even people there are perfect
in our imagination aren't truly happy with themselves sometimes,and for
the ones that end up dying searching for the ultimate beauty under
the shadow of their own public perfection persona.
Was like that American Beauty
Peagent Carrie Prejean saying that just straight couples have the right to marriage
,no offense ( like no offense makes everything better ) as someone
that sometimes abuse of his right to be honest, I know perfectly when
is the moment that I have been sassy or just cross the line and mad
fool of myself, and it is a fine line there, say that you are
beautiful is not much different than say that marriage is just for
straights or homosexuals are all pedophiles,no ofense!!
I totally admire the courage of these
women to say things like that without a shadow of embarassment in
their faces,when you make a strong statement about yourself you
automatically give the right to other people exame you searching for
the true.
Years of datings, affairs and sexual
interactions can obviously give you a good picture of how popular you
are,so if you are attractive and go and say that you are ugly then you are also wrong and are just being needy of attention, I believe
that a healfhy mind is the one that balance things out ,beauty is not
only in the perfect chin or that amazing six pack, beauty and
combination of different sychological prints as it is physical.
Confidence is beautiful, dose with a
little of humbleness and you have a pretty good chance to not
make fool of yourself or leave the room as the arrogant prejudice
prick, but dont get me wrong you got all the right and deserve feel
beautiful, say that to your dog, to your reflection and even to your
mother ( she probably will agree ) just dont say that in front of the
nation and get surprise by the backlash, or better saying, if
angelina and Brad haven't done it yet it probably won't work for you,
so wake up Cindy(rela) .
Here is the article itself : http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2124246/Samantha-Brick-downsides-looking-pretty-Why-women-hate-beautiful.html
And her interview after the public backlash :
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